Why whenever i buy something my husband also brings the topic budgeting , at the same he encourages?

me to go shopping, since then i have been blocked mentally since then. then when ever i refuse to shop he says to me that i am making trouble. I do not know what to do. I am doing the household budgeting and i asked him what about me. i do not understand , i am confused. first he encourages me then he brings up the topic about money. how we need to watch it. i understand but do i need to have something too?

He doesn’t mind if you shop for things you need or want, but he wants you to spend wisely and not overspend on extravagant things that you do not need.